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rebecca black:  what's behind the hate?

8/1/2014

 
May 30, 2011
Why the collusion between a song (which, admittedly, is not sophisticated) and its teen vocalist?
Why the criticism―vicious criticism―of Rebecca Black on a personal level?
What is it that she has come to symbolize?  
First and foremost, she represents  that “queen bee” so many of us have a visceral reaction to―that girl who has everything―the car, the clothes, the popularity, the ‘aren’t I cute’ ditziness (“gotta make my mind up, which seat can I take ???”).
And she made herself a public figure, so she is ‘fair game.’ She said “I am this”, and hundreds of thousands of teens safely transferred onto her all  the feelings (envy, anger, frustration, insecurity, need to differentiate, need to fit in, etc.) that they must keep somewhat in check around the ‘Rebecca Black’s’ of their schools.
(Who does she think she is, anyway?  It’s our duty to take her down a peg.   Put her in her place.  She isn’t All That, she’s a wannabe―she’s just like you and me)
Instead of disappearing into the void of cyberspace (something which would mirror ‘you suck’ back to her) , her song went viral, causing unimaginable amount s of  attention to be bestowed upon her.
And attention is endorsement.  Everyone knows who she is.
The bullying and hate mail she began receiving  caused her story to make the 11:00 News.
Which leads to the second point:  Adults got in on the action.
This is a red flag―an eyeroll that can be heard down the block―and  has probably only helped perpetuate her shelf-life.
(It’s all just a joke.  Why do  adults have to  take everything so seriously?  Nobody really cares―saying stuff is just ‘automatic’―no-one ever really thinks about it―it’s just funny.  Can’t you take a joke?
But fine, if you want us to think about Rebecca Black some more, we will―and we still won’t like her, it isn’t cool to like her.)
Opinions are more about posturing to peers (especially now that the adults are on her side) than they are about their referent.

In the end Rebecca Black  seems very Orwellian―Newspeak doublethink:  simultaneously implying  her opposite; containing within her(herself as referent) contradictory beliefs.


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