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Relational Aggression is Emotional Violence. It takes aim at social relationships and hurts by damaging other’s opinions of (and relationship to) its victims. It relies on social skills, which create ‘networks of negativity’ around a particular target / victim. Relational Aggression manipulates how others view a particular individual by isolating them, spreading (or posting) vicious rumors and lies about their private lives, exposing secrets, and creating situations of public humiliation which involve them. This psychological cruelty usually leaves its victims in a no-win situation: there is no forum in which s/he can challenge or refute the accusations, nor is s/he allowed to be upset by, or complain to any authority-figure about the on-going situation (not being able to ‘take it’ only escalates the torment). And unfortunately, there are usually no real sanctions which can be leveled against the bullies if the behavior becomes known. This type of bullying is especially prevalent in girls, who are exhorted to ‘be nice’ and have thus resorted to all sorts of ‘under the radar’ backstabbing. However, Columbine brought attention to these types of behaviors---which involve both sexes.
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